Whilst I continue to work on a post in which I attempt to describe the transition from son and daughter to father and mother based on Richard Rohr’s life changing book Falling Upward – a task that is proving to be more of a project than I had imagined (why do I do this to myself!) – I wanted to seize the moment and respond to an excellent blog written by Louise Gregg a wonderful friend and fellow traveller with whom Sarah and I have had the privilege of journeying for many years as family.
Here’s a link to Louise’s blog: The Yes of Fathers and Mothers
In her blog Louise does a brilliant job of describing what it feels like to have fathers and mothers in her life, her parents but also others whose presence “shouts yes” over her life. Amongst the beautiful picture Louise paints of what it means to be fathered and mothered it is this idea that so captured my heart.
It strikes me that as children begin to explore the world around them the word they hear most often from their parents is “no!” The emphasis being on “don’t” – don’t do this, don’t do that. Louise’s post reminds me that the Father’s voice over Jesus when he said “this is my son, I love him, with him I am well pleased” was a massive yes!
My point is this, fathers and mothers as leaders may start out with “no” and “don’t” but ultimately they become known for shouting “yes”” and “go for it!” Interestingly Louise suggests this “yes” isn’t just expressed in words but is expressed by their relentless and reassuring presence in the lives of sons and daughters as they journey. Fathers and mothers as leaders communicate to sons and daughters through relationship “whatever risks you take and whatever mistakes you make you are never alone”. The Father puts it this way – I will never leave you or forsake you!
Great blog Louise. You are not only a gifted and anointed singer, song writer and worship leader, you are a great writer! Thank you for contributing to my journey. Keep pursuing your dreams. Yes!
